{"id":4580,"date":"2022-09-03T10:14:36","date_gmt":"2022-09-03T08:14:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/?p=4580"},"modified":"2024-08-05T10:27:20","modified_gmt":"2024-08-05T08:27:20","slug":"ending-the-engagement-after-infidelity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/terminar-el-compromiso-despues-de-una-infidelidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Ending the engagement after infidelity"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid vc_custom_1662192947734\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><div id=\"ultimate-heading-97356a1a8d6e94e2e\" class=\"uvc-heading ult-adjust-bottom-margin ultimate-heading-97356a1a8d6e94e2e uvc-2676 justify\" data-hspacer=\"no_spacer\"  data-halign=\"left\" style=\"text-align:left\"><div class=\"uvc-heading-spacer no_spacer\" style=\"top\"><\/div><div class=\"uvc-main-heading ult-responsive\"  data-ultimate-target='.uvc-heading.ultimate-heading-97356a1a8d6e94e2e h2'  data-responsive-json-new='{\"font-size\":\"desktop:40px;\",\"line-height\":\"\"}' ><h2 style=\"font-weight:normal;color:#5ec4e9;margin-bottom:15px;\">What to do when you are betrayed<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"uvc-sub-heading ult-responsive\"  data-ultimate-target='.uvc-heading.ultimate-heading-97356a1a8d6e94e2e .uvc-sub-heading '  data-responsive-json-new='{\"font-size\":\"\",\"line-height\":\"\"}'  style=\"font-weight:normal;\">Ending a commitment after infidelity is not easy, betrayal is one of the most painful experiences you can have in a relationship. To have someone you love and trust betray your love and trust by being unfaithful is devastating. When someone you love hurts you so deeply, it can paralyse you with fear and leave you questioning everything about yourself, your partner and even your future together.<\/p>\n<p>It takes time to end a relationship, effort and will to heal from the betrayal. It is not only about ending things, but also about overcoming the betrayal. Once caught in this situation, many people wonder how to end the engagement after infidelity. Here are some tips on how to end an engagement after infidelity that will help you get through this difficult time:<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid vc_custom_1662192947734\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><div id=\"ultimate-heading-37646a1a8d6e9564c\" class=\"uvc-heading ult-adjust-bottom-margin ultimate-heading-37646a1a8d6e9564c uvc-8076 justify\" data-hspacer=\"no_spacer\"  data-halign=\"left\" style=\"text-align:left\"><div class=\"uvc-heading-spacer no_spacer\" style=\"top\"><\/div><div class=\"uvc-main-heading ult-responsive\"  data-ultimate-target='.uvc-heading.ultimate-heading-37646a1a8d6e9564c h2'  data-responsive-json-new='{\"font-size\":\"\",\"line-height\":\"\"}' ><h2 style=\"font-weight:normal;margin-bottom:15px;\">Decide if you can overcome infidelity<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"uvc-sub-heading ult-responsive\"  data-ultimate-target='.uvc-heading.ultimate-heading-37646a1a8d6e9564c .uvc-sub-heading '  data-responsive-json-new='{\"font-size\":\"\",\"line-height\":\"\"}'  style=\"font-weight:normal;\">If your partner has cheated on you, it can be very difficult to decide whether you can move on from this betrayal. When your partner breaks your trust, it can be devastating and make you wonder if you can ever trust that person again.<\/p>\n<p>Before deciding whether you can move on from infidelity, think about how much you love your partner, how committed you are to the relationship and what you hope your future will look like if you stay together.<\/p>\n<p>If you are unsure about your future with the person after they cheat, it may be better to end the engagement. When thinking about whether or not you can get over infidelity, don't assume that people who have been cheated on can easily get over the betrayal. It can be difficult to recover from infidelity, especially if you have been together for a long time or if you are planning to get married.<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid vc_custom_1662192947734\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><div id=\"ultimate-heading-35256a1a8d6e95a73\" class=\"uvc-heading ult-adjust-bottom-margin ultimate-heading-35256a1a8d6e95a73 uvc-7128 justify\" data-hspacer=\"no_spacer\"  data-halign=\"left\" style=\"text-align:left\"><div class=\"uvc-heading-spacer no_spacer\" style=\"top\"><\/div><div class=\"uvc-main-heading ult-responsive\"  data-ultimate-target='.uvc-heading.ultimate-heading-35256a1a8d6e95a73 h2'  data-responsive-json-new='{\"font-size\":\"\",\"line-height\":\"\"}' ><h2 style=\"font-weight:normal;margin-bottom:15px;\">Confronting your partner with infidelity<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"uvc-sub-heading ult-responsive\"  data-ultimate-target='.uvc-heading.ultimate-heading-35256a1a8d6e95a73 .uvc-sub-heading '  data-responsive-json-new='{\"font-size\":\"\",\"line-height\":\"\"}'  style=\"font-weight:normal;\">Before you confront your partner about an infidelity, you need to be sure that you are prepared to end the engagement if necessary. Confronting your partner about an infidelity can be a scary and difficult thing to do, but it is something you need to do if you want to move on with your life.<\/p>\n<p>When you confront your partner about an affair, you give them the opportunity to tell their side of the story.<\/p>\n<p>You are also letting your partner know that you know about the cheating and that you are breaking off the engagement because of the affair.<\/p>\n<p>When confronting your partner about an affair, you should be careful not to overreact or let your emotions get the better of you. Whether your partner admits to the affair or does so during the confrontation, it is important to let him or her know that the affair does not change how you feel about him or her. Stay calm and collected and let your partner know that you love him or her, but that you can no longer commit to him or her because of the affair.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Moving on from the break-up Once you have confronted your partner and he or she has admitted the affair, it is time to end the engagement.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You may be tempted to forgive your partner, but forgiveness is a personal decision you must make. You can forgive your partner, but that does not mean that you have forgotten what he or she did or that the pain is completely gone. If you decide to forgive your partner after the affair, it is important to make sure that you understand what he or she did and that you are committed to not doing it again.<\/p>\n<p>You may also consider working with a counsellor if you feel you need extra help to move on. When you end your engagement, it is also important to think about how you want to let your partner know that you are breaking up with them.<\/p>\n<p>You do not need to tell your partner that you have been cheated on, but you will need to let them know that you are ending the engagement.<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid vc_custom_1662192947734\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><div id=\"ultimate-heading-24706a1a8d6e95ed8\" class=\"uvc-heading ult-adjust-bottom-margin ultimate-heading-24706a1a8d6e95ed8 uvc-360 justify\" data-hspacer=\"no_spacer\"  data-halign=\"left\" style=\"text-align:left\"><div class=\"uvc-heading-spacer no_spacer\" style=\"top\"><\/div><div class=\"uvc-main-heading ult-responsive\"  data-ultimate-target='.uvc-heading.ultimate-heading-24706a1a8d6e95ed8 h2'  data-responsive-json-new='{\"font-size\":\"\",\"line-height\":\"\"}' ><h2 style=\"font-weight:normal;margin-bottom:15px;\">If you need to be sure he has been unfaithful, use the polygraph.<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"uvc-sub-heading ult-responsive\"  data-ultimate-target='.uvc-heading.ultimate-heading-24706a1a8d6e95ed8 .uvc-sub-heading '  data-responsive-json-new='{\"font-size\":\"\",\"line-height\":\"\"}'  style=\"font-weight:normal;\">If you are not sure whether your partner cheated or not, <a href=\"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/can-a-polygrapher-detect-lies-by-omission\/\">you can use the polygraph<\/a> to help you find out. A <a href=\"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/how-to-prepare-emotionally-for-a-polygraph-test\/\">polygraph is a type of test<\/a> The lie detection system is used to see if a person is telling the truth. If you use <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" title=\"the polygraph\" href=\"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">the polygraph<\/a> to see if your partner has cheated on you, it is important to remember that the polygraph is not 100% accurate.<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/5-ways-polygraph-can-save-your-relationship\/\">polygraph is not a form<\/a> perfect way to find out the truth, but it can be useful in some situations. When using a polygraph to find out if your partner has cheated on you, you will want to make sure you use a certified polygraph examiner.<\/p>\n<p>You can find out if the examiner is certified by calling the American Polygraph Association. 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To have someone you love and trust betray your love and trust by being unfaithful is devastating.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5656,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4580","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-1","description-off"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4580","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4580"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4580\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5656"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4580"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4580"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elpoligrafo.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4580"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}